Emotional Regulation – Sample Lesson

“Defense Mechanisms”

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Sample Lesson Resources

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Lesson Plan Demo Video
Download Keynote Deck (Mac)
Download PowerPoint Deck (Windows)
Download Student “Defense Mechanisms Game Plan” (worksheet)
Download The Facilitator Guide for the “Defense Mechanisms Game Plan” (worksheet)
Story Example – Video Clip “Parking Lot Rage”
Download Visual Metaphor Defense Mechanisms
Download Activity
– “Name Writing”
Resilience Booster
“Observation Activity: Others Defense Mechanisms “
Lesson Resources for Home and Parents

Lesson Resources: Emotional Regulation

Defense Mechanisms

About this Lesson

This sample lesson on Defense Mechanisms comes from our Secondary Prebuilt Lessons, designed for middle school and high school students.

When students struggle to manage emotions, they may act impulsively, damage important relationships, and experience ongoing stress that impacts both academic performance and overall well-being. Without tools for recognizing and regulating emotions, small challenges can quickly escalate into larger behavioral or academic setbacks.

Why This Lesson Matters

The WhyTry Emotional Regulation unit strengthens the skills students need to stay in control during difficult moments. In this lesson, students build:

  • Emotional awareness
  • Stress-management techniques and coping strategies
  • Self-control under pressure
  • Mindfulness
  • Healthier ways to respond to defense mechanisms
  • Constructive conflict-resolution skills

Using powerful visual metaphors and hands-on activities, this unit helps students understand how emotions influence choices—and how those choices shape long-term outcomes.

Educators can use these tools to guide students toward healthier responses, build confidence in managing strong feelings, and develop resilience for everyday challenges.

What’s Included in This Sample Lesson

These resources are designed to make implementation easy and flexible for classroom or small-group use. You’ll receive:

  • A video walk-through showing how to teach the visual metaphor (Defense Mechanisms) and key activity elements
  • A complete printable lesson plan
  • A story-based video clip to illustrate the concept during instruction
  • Step-by-step activity instructions
  • Printable Resilience Boosters for observation and reflection (including an option to assign as homework)
  • A downloadable presentation deck
    • Keynote (Mac)
    • PowerPoint (PC)
  • A Student Mechanisms Game Plan worksheet to help students process the metaphor independently
  • A Facilitator Guide for using the worksheet in a one-on-one setting
  • A parent companion resource to help families reinforce these skills at home

Video Demonstration

Facilitating the lesson and Processing The Visual Metaphor “Defense Mechanisms”

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Schedule a live demo with one of our Program Directors. We’ll answer your questions, walk you through implementation options for your school or district, and provide pricing details.

Looking for Elementary or Pre-K/Kinder resources? We’d be happy to show you how WhyTry supports younger learners as well.

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